tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89954088731402001592024-03-22T07:26:27.172+09:00JapandraA whole new thing.Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.comBlogger577125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-52868875087621401052020-07-10T06:49:00.000+09:002020-07-10T06:49:10.189+09:00Furious Fiction JulyFor the Australian Writers Centre monthly contest. Probably not a winner!<br />
<br /><br /><b>Sorry</b><br /><br />“You know, I really feel like I should apologize to him,” Claire smoothed her sleek hair back and sighed.<br />“Well, these things always bring up a lot of feelings, I don’t think that’s unusual,” Maureen answered, placing a hand on her friend’s shoulder.<br />Both women looked through the small clusters of people at the man in question. <br />Claire turned in her seat toward her friend. “Do you think I should?”<br />Maureen tipped her head. “I don’t know if it’s the right time.”<br />“Mo, they say it’s never too late to apologize.”<br />“Claire, it’s been years. His wife and kid are here.” She looked around at the slowly growing crowd. “And honestly? Sometimes it <i>is</i> too late.”<br />Claire frowned. “I just want him to know that I realize everything I put him through, and I’m sorry if he was upset about it.” <br />“He moved on. Wife, kid?” <br />“Actually, I’m not sure if he ever even knew I was cheating on him back then.”<br />“Then why on earth bring it up now, of all times?”<br />“I think it would just make me feel better about it, you know?”<br />“Does his wife know who you are?”<br />“You know, it’s funny you ask? I think maybe she’s been, like, Facebook stalking me. She’s been coming up under ‘people you may know.’ ”<br />“Claire…” Maureen frowned. “Why would Jill be stalking you after all this time?”<br />“Maybe the comments I leave on his pictures?” <br />Maureen cocked an eyebrow. <br />“Well, just because we broke up a few years ago doesn’t mean we’re like, <i>dead</i> to each other!” <br />Maureen gulped.<br />Claire clicked her red fingernails against each other and leaned into Maureen with a grin. “And even though we may have technically stopped seeing each other—“<br />Maureen cut her off. “Technically? You had a <i>spectacular</i> break-up! I regretted introducing you guys.”<br />“— that doesn’t mean we totally stopped… seeing each other.”<br />“Claire!” She hissed in a whisper. “He’s been married for four years!” <br />“Only because Jill got pregnant.” Claire shrugged and sighed. “I knew you couldn’t be cool about this.” The woman on the other side of Maureen shot them both a dirty look as Maureen pulled back, bumping her. <br />“How can you say that? You know they were smitten. He looked ten years younger when he was around her, he was like a puppy.” <br />Claire scowled. “Then how come he’d always answer if I texted him enough?”<br />Maureen crossed her arms and stiffened. “Unbelievable. You actually drove a man to—”<br />“Distraction,” Claire said, batting her eyes. “Does my hair look okay?”<br />Maureen stared straight ahead, shredding the damp tissue in her fists. <br />Claire stood up, straightening her dress. She walked to the front of the room, leaned over the casket, and whispered into the waxen man’s ear.<br /><br />Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-57984793542524330442020-07-10T06:46:00.003+09:002020-07-10T06:46:44.605+09:00Furious Fiction JuneFor the Australian Writers' Centre monthly contest. Also not a winner!<br />
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Your story’s first and last words must begin with J.<br />Your story must include a game being played.<br />Your story must include the phrase MISS/MISSED THE BOAT.<br />
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<b>Those Who Can’t</b><br />
<b> </b><br /> Juggling looked so easy on the video. But it was one of many skills on the list that was about to be crossed out, unachieved. Guitar, no: It chewed up Justine’s finger tips, and her hands were too fat for it, anyway. French braiding, no: Her arms got tired. Sourdough bread, no: Like she was really going scoop a cup of glop into the trash every day? What a mess. What else? There had to be something tangible Justine could achieve within the confines of her little apartment. As CyrusFlyrus waggled his eyebrows and added another banana to his blurred arc of flying fruit, she closed the video channel and started another game of online solitaire.<br />
<br /> All the vloggers she followed had made impressive progress toward mastering some new skill, or were seeing the first fruits of a project that they’d started back when they all went inside. GreenSmoothieGirl had fully rebranded as GreenBalconyGirl (“Yay, plant with me, on my Green Balcony!”) and was nibbling the first sugar snap peas growing from the vines climbing her railings. FrankieFilms was almost done watching and reporting (“Lights, camera, Franction!”) on each one of Cinématique’s 100 Essential Movies for True Film Lovers. Not enough for him to get through one a day, he’d been doing double features on the weekends. Where did people find the time, or the motivation?<br />
<br /> She scrolled through the pages she followed and saw graceful handstands, drafts of novels, adorable pet tricks, blueprints for achieving social justice. And here, 78 days into the quarantine, Justine was feeling like she’d missed the boat. It seemed like it would be so easy! Just pick a hobby, practice it a little each day, and voila! You were good at something. But she was still just as bad at everything as she’d always been. If not worse. She had failed to craft an invigorating and inspiring morning routine to give structure to her day. No sign of a relaxing and reflective evening routine, unless you counted looking up from YouTube and cursing at the clock each night. A tidy meal plan that incorporated each day’s leftovers into the next day’s menu? She had a vague memory of a time when she ate three meals a day, but now she mostly grazed from one plate — okay, bag — of snacks to the next. There was no cleaning schedule. Or much cleaning, for that matter. She pushed aside a pile of unread books and clicked on another video about decluttering. A smile crept across her face. <br /> <br />
She cleared the laundry off the bed behind her, tilted the desk light just so, and hit record on the laptop. “Hi guys! You can achieve anything you set your mind to. Whatever it is you want to do, learn how to just do it, with me, JustineDoIt!” <br />Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-82016691451092533432020-07-10T06:44:00.001+09:002020-07-10T06:44:57.857+09:00Furious Fiction MayFor the Australian Writers' Centre monthly contest. Not a winner!<br />
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Prompts: <br />
Your story’s first word must be FIVE.<br />Your story must include something being replaced.<br />Your story must include the phrase A SILVER LINING.<br />
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<b>Indoor Games</b><br /><br />“Five, four, three, two, balaclava, now the floor is all hot lava!” The tiny ringleader in the red bandana jumped on the ottoman and shouted her countdown. Arms and legs and shrieks filled the air as the other kids scrambled to claim their own pieces of furniture. <br /><br />In the kitchen, Paul placed the last mimosa on the tall island with a flourish. Four mothers perched around on swiveling bar stools. “If there’s a silver lining to all this,” he said, “it’s seeing the kids get off the screens for a while.”<br /><br />“Cheers to that!” The mothers clinked glasses, and Paul left with a wave. <br /><br />“Yesterday, Lula pulled a stack of books off the shelf! I was shocked,” Alice said.<br /><br />“Max and Ez dragged the box of Legos from the back of the closet,” Dana said.<br /><br />“That’s constructive!”<br /><br />“Of course, we didn’t realize about the Legos until the next morning,” she said, adding a little vodka to her glass.<br /><br />“What did they build?”<br /><br />Dana swirled the glass. “Nothing. They were playing <i>farm.</i> They ‘planted’ them in the entire living room rug, wall to wall. I had to do the Heimlich on the cat, and John almost had to have a few surgically removed from his feet.” She twisted her wedding ring. “Why couldn’t they go for books, like yours, Alice? What’s Lula reading?”<br /><br />“Reading,” Alice snorted. “I wish. Said they were using the books to ‘do spells.’”<br /><br />“That’s cute…”<br /><br />“Is it? She and Frankie tore out the pages and crumpled them up. They lit the balls of paper on the stove and tossed them into the oven to burn. I ran in when the smoke detector started blaring.”<br /><br />“Oh, god.” <br /><br />“Well, yesterday mine played beauty parlor,” Marcy said, watching the foam rise as she topped off her glass with champagne. <br /><br />“Now, that’s sweet,” cooed Dana. “Must be so nice to have girls.”<br /><br />Marcy slurped the foam. “One of those moments where it was a little too quiet, you know? So I go upstairs, and find all - all - of my makeup spread across the the bathroom and smeared all over their little faces.”<br /><br />“Ugh, classic mess! But no harm done, right?”<br /><br />“Ashlye'd cut a giant patch out of Hazel’s hair. That’s why she’s wearing it all wrapped up in that bandana today.”<br /><br />“Oh, no!”<br /><br />“And I came in just as Hazel was about to paint nail polish on Ashlye. As eyeliner.” <br /><br />“No!”<br /><br />“Yep. I scream, she drops the bottle. It shatters. Hot-pink polish and glass shards everywhere, mixed in with the hair cuttings. I swear, some days I wish I had boys.” <br /><br />“You think so?” Trina replaced her mimosa with a splash of scotch. “My boys like to play ‘rock.’” <br /><br />“Rock?”<br /><br />“Yeah. They throw a rock at each other until one of them comes inside crying.” She emptied her glass.<br /><br />At their feet, hot lava roiled and spluttered.<br /><br />Marcy sighed as she curled her legs tighter under herself. <br /><br />“At least they’re finally off the screens.”Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-409229538891512892019-05-29T08:56:00.000+09:002019-05-29T08:56:01.586+09:00The faded momsI was finishing a draining and mostly circular conversation with the
second customers of the morning, an older Australian couple who had a
problem with their reservation. (The highlight was their certainty that
if only the young man they'd spoken to on the phone yesterday were
there, he would sort it all out. A cartoon scroll <span style="background-color: white; color: black; display: inline; float: none; font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">unfurled in my mind </span>of
the things he is constantly un-sorting out, but I smiled and said that
unfortunately he wouldn't be in for a few hours. As it turned out, he
would come a few hours later and be sent immediately to the emergency
room, with symptoms of heart trouble. On his bike. But that's another
story.)<br />
<br />
I told two hovering moms with two little boys
that I'd be right with them. While I was approaching a tentative truce
with the Australians, I shooed the kids out from behind me and asked as
nicely as I could for them to not run around the dense row of bikes,
still lined up like dominoes that early in the day. The moms called the boys
back. Then one slipped under the two-tiered rack. Dangerous! I asked
more urgently that they keep them out. A mom hollered, and he climbed
out and sling-shotted right out the front and toward the street. The
moms watched without a twitch, as the other guy working sprinted after
the kid.<br />
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the blonde one slogged her way through the (brief!) paperwork, puffing
on a vape pen, the brunette with a fanned-out topknot and dangly gold
earrings was squatting on the other side of the desk saying, "Fuck, this
fucking thing leaked all over the inside of my bag!" I didn't know what
she was talking about. </span></div>
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They wanted
to pull a wagon trailer behind a tandem bike. Can you picture that? It's
a lot of bike. I said that would be long and unwieldy, but they
insisted they had done it before. I reluctantly wrestled the tandem out,
navigating it between the skittering toddlers, <span style="background-color: white; color: black; display: inline; float: none; font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">because I know I can be a little conservative about what's possible with bikes, and they seemed sure</span>.
The manager saw what they were going for and squashed the idea like a
cockroach. "No way. It's too long. Can't do it." They insisted on
getting all four people onto a single vehicle, so we wheeled the tandem
back in and pulled out the Urban Arrow, with its long front bucket. Before they
all piled in, I said it would be a lot of weight up front, and the
driver might want to take it for a quick spin empty first to get the
hang of it. Nah, they said.<br />
<br />
As they were settling in, I
realized what had leaked in the bag: a baby bottle that was now sitting
in a puddle of milk on the counter.<span style="background-color: white; color: black; display: inline; float: none; font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;"> One of the guys ran the wet bottle over to them, along with the credit card they'd dropped on the sidewalk.</span><br />
<br />
The
driver mom gave a lurch forward to snap back the kickstand and put one
foot on a pedal. In slow motion, the whole thing tipped onto its side.
We ran over to help, and they laughed and said we should have gotten
video. I rolled with it and said a boomerang would have been awesome, ha
ha, and they agreed and offered to tip it again for the 'gram as the kids and mom crawled out. We asked
them to please not.<br />
<br />
They wouldn't put just the kids in a bucket bike with the other mom on a regular bike, the usual arrangement for this combination of people, because they said the kids would kill each other. So they very reluctantly agreed to the only sensible remaining option: two regular bikes with Yepp child seats on the backs – what we had originally recommended instead of the tandem. I gripped the counter as t<span style="background-color: white; color: black; display: inline; float: none; font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">hey finally rolled out, unsteady but enthusiastic, with the kids perched behind. </span><br />
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they rode off into the morning, my coworker exhaled and said, "Dude,
those moms were so high!" Then it all made sense. I went into the back
to breathe a minute. </span><br />
<br />
A
few hours later, they returned as they had left: lots of commotion,
then the second one, red-faced and disheveled, slowed to a stop and tipped right over, kid still on the
back.<br />
<br />
When they were checking out, after one had dived back into the bike rack to rescue her oil pen from the bike bag, one of the kids
started spinning the tall rack of sunglasses faster and faster. I asked
if she could please have him take it down a notch so the shades
didn't fly off. She did. "Evan, sweetie, stop spinning the rack," she
said, side-eyeing me. "This lady doesn't have children."Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-69427511975109042192019-05-02T14:17:00.003+09:002019-05-02T14:17:53.493+09:00You can't just give shit awayPeople with similar backgrounds come in mini-waves sometimes. Often there's a simple reason for it - three Brazilian or French families in a row reflect national holidays, a wave of fathers and sons from Arizona or New Jersey might all be in for a basketball game that night. But sometimes it's just because random events cluster. <br /><br />
I thought I recognized an accent, and asked a customer where he was from. Sure enough, he said he lived here now, but had come from Georgia. I told him I'd gone to school there. "Wow, what brought you out <i>here," </i>he asked, as if this were the first moment he'd ever heard of anyone making that move. "My husband's family is here," I said. "What brought <i>you </i>out here?"<br />
"I moved out here to get sober. Ten months now."<br />
"That's great, congratulations. One of those places in Malibu?" I asked, already sure that it wasn't.<br />
"No, I'm just taking it day by day, right around here."<br />
"Day by day is all you can do," I said.<br />
"Ten months and four days today. I was thinking I'd ride a bike," he said. "Ten months and four days."<br />
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<br />
The front desk edges right up to the sidewalk, and people bump up asking for random stuff all the time - do you happen to have some duct tape, a band-aid, scissors, a sharpie? The manager has a clear and all-encompassing policy on this type of charity: Nope.<br />
"And I'll tell you why: We'll become known as a place
that just gives shit away and then everyone will come around looking
for shit."<br />
The next guy who came by was tall and had grey stubble that was a little too long to be good news. Like he might have just gotten rescued from the desert, or been kicked out of the house a while. "Can I have a pen?" he asked, standing too still and locking eyes with me.<br />
"To keep?" I asked.<br />
"Yes," he said, still motionless, chin lowered slightly. It felt important to him, or at least like it was going to be more trouble than it was worth if I said no. So I said sure and handed him a pen from the cup* and wished him a good day. He took it and said, "I'm detoxing and I need to write down some numbers."<br />
"Good luck," I said, as he walked away.<br />
I turned to my manager, who had been standing beside me, and pre-empted any comment. <br />
"I know, I know," I said. "I made an executive decision. I didn't feel like arguing."<br />
"Nah, it's fine," he said. "I hate these pens anyway."<br />
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*Don't get ideas! I don't want the shop to be swamped with people looking for hand-outs tomorrow.Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-78109165580371106892019-05-02T14:06:00.003+09:002019-05-02T14:06:59.855+09:00I hope there's cell reception in HaleakalaIt was on the quiet side, so I was standing out in front, ready to
"intercept" people coming in, per instruction. A lady in tall boots, a
long cashmere cardigan and moto-style yoga pants approached, and I heard her tell the person she was on the phone with that she was about to rent a bicycle. I hustled over to the register,
making a mental note to ask where she'd gotten her yoga pants after she hung up. I waited as she stood in front of the counter saying,
"We're trying to decide between Haleakala and the Road to Hana. I mean,
we could do both." She looked up long enough to tell me she needed a
bicycle. I picked up one of our little contract/clipboard combos and
started to tell her the parts she needed to fill out, but she was back to
talking, so I just tapped the blanks with the pen and pushed both toward
her. "I mean, we'll be staying at the Ritz, so they'll be able to help
us plan, either way."<br />
Surely she's wrapping up, I thought, so I waited
to ask her what kind of bike she wanted. She pushed the contract back
toward me, looking into the distance. "I mean, Haleakala is supposed to be <i>amazing</i>, but I
don't know if everyone is going to feel like it."<br />
I held up my clawed
hand in the international gesture for "I need your credit card." She
slapped it down on the contract. I ran it and gave her the receipt to
sign, which she did without pausing her conversation or looking up.<br />
"What kind of bike would you like?" I asked, even though she was still talking. Fine. Beach cruiser it is. I grabbed one, set it up next
to her and adjusted the saddle height to her size.<br />
"Not that one. I need a basket. We probably
shouldn't skip Haleakala, after all." I swapped bikes, crossed out the bike's serial
number on her paperwork and adjusted the height. "I have to go, I'm
getting on a bicycle now," she said, and finally hung up. And took off. I never did get
to ask about her yoga pants, but by that time, I didn't care
anyway.Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-30429804731935546842019-04-19T11:22:00.001+09:002019-04-19T11:22:37.496+09:00No hands!I complimented a middle-aged British woman on her necklace, an unusual silver
pendant. "I had it made for my son's wedding," she said. "Brilliant
jeweler. No hands."<br />
"No hands?" I asked. <br />
"The jeweler. She
has no hands." She laughed. "Then I lost it, so I had her make it
again." Her husband nodded proudly. I was left with a lot of questions,
but there was a long line forming. Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-9679202776893314002019-04-17T03:09:00.002+09:002019-04-17T03:09:44.354+09:00Just chillin' on the ground. What's your problem?A guy with a grey ponytail was sitting on a dirty blanket outside the secondary bike center. As I was going in, another hard-up guy dragging a sleeping bag over his shoulder passed by and said something. The guy on the ground got indignant and called out to me as I was in the doorway. "Do you believe that? Did you hear what he just said?"<br />
I hadn't.<br />
"Say that again," he said to the man walking by, like a coach challenging a mouthy kid in a middle school gym class.<br />
Obediently: "I said, do you have any meth."<br />
"Did you hear that?" the ground guy asked me. <br />
"Yes. I... don't have any meth," I said.<br />
"I don't either!" he said, shaking his head. "Can't believe people around here."<br />
When I left a while later, he was still sitting there with a few trash bags piled around him. I brought out a bottle of water on my way out. "I don't need that, I'm fine," he said. "Are you sure? It's hot out. Take it," I said.<br />
"No, I'm completely fine," he said, like I was the weird one. It seemed like he saw himself as a broker in a suit on a park bench, wondering why people kept treating him like he was some kind of homeless guy.Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-22765460741420540132019-04-15T09:08:00.001+09:002019-04-15T09:08:59.845+09:00No good tour goes unpunishedThere was some kind of miscommunication. The more time that's gone by, the less I understand what actually happened, but on a Saturday, the matriarch of a group of eight called the shop from our launch point around the corner to ask where their tour guide was. The guy who answered the phone told her he didn't know anything about it, which was true and reasonable, and suggested she come to the shop to discuss. While she was marching over, I'd looked in the system and didn't see her booking. Curious. Maybe they'd booked with another tour company? But then why did they have our address and phone number? She'd worked up a good head of steam by the time she arrived at the desk, a moment before I was going to take off for lunch at noon. She said she'd been treated poorly on the phone, and I assured her that we'd figure out what was going on and see if we could sort them out. She brandished her phone with her TripAdvisor receipt, clearly showing that she had a reservation with us... for the next day. "That was a mistake," she said. "We meant to book for today." Without even glancing at the guy she'd insulted for not being able to find their non-existent reservation for that day: "Isn't there anyone who can take us out today, right now? There are eight of us, this is our only chance, and we really want to go!" Thinking about it now, that was a request that was clearly unnecessary to try to fulfill. But not a completely impossible one, and I hated to see them miss out due to a simple typo. This was their only chance! They were booked solid the next day, and leaving the day after that. <br />
I told her I had to be back for another tour at 1:30, so theirs would have to be abbreviated if we did it. "That's even better," she said. "We'd appreciate it so much! We'll ride fast."<br />
I calculated. If we left immediately and skipped a few stops, and if everything went as smoothly as always, and if all eight people could keep up the pace on the final incline, we'd squeak in just in time for me to take off as the second guide for the <a href="https://japandra.blogspot.com/2019/01/zoe-became-badass.html" target="_blank">birthday party</a>.<br />
Right.<br />
At 1:30, with two miles left to go, the family was sitting on a patio sipping pints of beer, and the father was cursing and covered in grease. He had planted his bike seat-side down with the wheels spinning in the air for the second, but not final, time. After the mechanic rode out and fixed the jammed chain, and after the family waited for the unwieldy box of to-go french fries they ordered that took longer than the repair, and after the birthday party tour took off without me, and after I fixed another slipped chain a few blocks later, I was chatting to one of the sons at a stop light as we waited for the stragglers stretched out down the length of the block. "So, what have you guys got planned tomorrow?" I asked.<br />
"Tomorrow? Nothing," he said. "I think we're just going to take it easy all day."Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-81070801034309068312019-04-05T09:03:00.001+09:002019-04-05T09:03:25.572+09:00An offer I could refuse<div style="-webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; color: black; font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; letter-spacing: normal; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;">
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"Hey! Hey! You want to have sex?" The man shouting at me as he staggered by had already been past the shop a few times by 7:45 am. He seemed probably homeless and definitely drunk. </div>
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I said a very clear no. </div>
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"Come on, yes you do! </div>
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He kept walking, fortunately, as he shouted over his shoulder, "Me and you, on the ground!" He was almost gone by the time he added "Mano a manoooo!"</div>
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My coworkers looked horrified when they came in a few minutes later and I told them had happened.</div>
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"Sorry that happened, what did you say?" they asked.</div>
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"I... declined."</div>
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"Well yeah, of course," one replied. "You're married." </div>
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I explained that there were a whole lot of reasons that made that an easy no, and that being married didn't really crack the top ten. </div>
</span><b></b><i></i><u></u><sub></sub><sup></sup><strike></strike><br />Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-77567143735241291712019-01-29T16:05:00.003+09:002019-01-29T16:05:44.406+09:00These are the people in your neighborhoodThe shop was a magnet for chatters this morning. <br /><br />
Before 7, there were already steady inquiries. One was a lady who looked like she might be early for a meeting asking where she could find breakfast. The other was unintelligible - a guy wanted to know if we had... something. He repeated it twice, and I finally said we didn't have it, whatever it was. A woman with a severe speech impediment and a kids' knit cap on asked where the 720 bus was.<br />
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Steve the brochure guy came a little after 7. He comes once a week to refill the rack of tourist fliers. He hits the road before 5 am to make his rounds, and every week we talk about how lucky we are to have jobs where we get to see the sunrise, talk to people (we nod at each other when we say this), and not be in an office. "Can't beat it," we say. Today I learned that he's a Hotwheels collector, and has a garage full of them. Among the Hotwheels, his absolute favorite is Marvin the Martian, and today after work, he was going to go track one down that he'd gotten a lead on.<br />
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As I was finishing lining up the cargo bikes, a kid in one too many layers of clothing walked slowly toward the shop and stopped a few feet away. I wondered if he was going to be a problem. I said good morning, a little wary. He said "Y'all rent bicycles?" Yep. He commented on the sunrise, and I agreed that it was amazing. He raised a fresh blunt. "Wake and bake?" I declined, and mentioned that I was at work. "Integrity, I like that!" he said. We chatted about the sunrise a while longer. He said he'd arranged it and I complimented him on the good work. I think he'd already started the waking and baking.<br />
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An older woman in all white walked by with a velcro walking cast on one leg, a styrofoam head in her hand, and a can-shaped toque made of tinfoil and tape wrapped around her head. I was just about to take a picture of her hat from behind, when someone grabbed my arm lightly. It was the tall Caribbean guy, who said once that he'd missed the boat back, stopping for our surreal daily chat. Today he said, "So I walked into a bathroom--." I stopped him and asked if I'd want to hear this story. "Of course! I walk into a bathroom. And there's a naked girl. And there's a cow. And I say, 'this isn't Victoria's Secret!'" He slapped his own thigh at whatever the joke was there. We did our fumbly blend of fist-bump, high-five and mutual arm-pat and he kept going toward the beach. He says he has a house in Malibu that survived the fires because he surrounded it with cacti. He said once that his name was Billy, but he didn't say it convincingly.<br />
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Across the street, a man walking with a sharp jerk shouted, like the slow chugga-chug of a steam engine starting up, "<i>Moth</i>erfucker! <i>Mother</i>fucker! <i>Moth</i>erfucker!" <br />
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Doug came for a repair (even though he always does it himself and is just short on time right now) and gave me a wink and a fist-bump on his way in. A transplanted New Yorker stopped to talk about how nice the weather was here for us east coasters, and then I swear he left with a subtle Wakandan salute. Two women who could have been Jersey girls except they were from Toronto stopped to ask how the Jump bikes work. They were skeptical, like how do you know if the bike has mechanical problems when you get on it? Who's checking it if you can just leave them anywhere? They said they'd rather get them from someplace like us. Three kids who probably should have been in school came in to fix a tire at the work stand. Two of them had crashed into each other and busted the tire. They were psyched that we had tools to use.<br />
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All the regular guys who come by for shower towels said hi. On a day when business is quieter, I love getting to talk to these people all day. <br />
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A wretched older homeless lady who looked like an ancient fertility statue disguised in a dirty dark blue hoodie and short red wig was causing problems outside. She threatened the guy at the desk, and he said she'd stared at a customer's kid and shouted, "You need to have your tonsils out!" Maybe she was a medical psychic. That'll be for mall security to figure out.<br />
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How do you go back to a desk job after this?Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-42610620403158507222019-01-21T15:19:00.001+09:002019-01-23T06:45:28.487+09:00Zoe is a badassI caught up with the birthday party tour in progress, and it was off to a wobbly start. Six girls, all 11 or 12 years old, and four parents were celebrating one girl's birthday with a custom sweets tour. The off-the-shelf sweets tour goes through some really pretty Santa Monica neighborhoods, but it's all street riding. These kids were not really up for it, so we designed a custom tour that kept them mostly on on the beach path, and still got them plenty sugared up. Chelsea was leading the group, and I was going to ride sheep-dog at the back and make sure nobody got left behind.<br />
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I had just finished an emergency (long story) tour for a group of eight adults, and mechanical problems had made it a little longer and bumpier than expected. A part of me was hoping Chelsea would say, "I got this, you don't need to join," but when I texted to find out where they were and if I should still meet up, she sounded a little urgent when she told me where to intercept them. Right before she hung up, she said, "We've had a situation."<br />
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Most of the group was at the donut shop where they were supposed to be, but they had gotten very spread out on the way over, and two moms and two kids were at another bakery nearby, regrouping because, they texted to someone in the main group, Zoe had "hit a car." It turned out that this was not a down-playing euphemism as we had feared – she had literally wobbled into a parked car. She wasn't injured, but she was badly rattled. She and her twin sister were just a few months younger than the other girls, but they looked years younger. They were petite and a little awkward. I related pretty hard. Zoe and one of the other girls were wary of riding down the California Incline. Kaelynn noped right out of it and walked the whole way, but Zoe rode at about the same speed as the walkers, most of the way. She dismounted before we reached the end, but she gave it a great effort, considering she hadn't wanted to get back on the bike at all. As we rode down the beach path side by side, I suggested that she might feel steadier and swerve less if she raised her gaze way out ahead of her instead of looking down. She said that was cool, and seemed to straighten out.<br />
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Our procession made its way slowly down the path, which was mid-August crowded, with more different types of electric vehicles than I remember ever seeing before. From the rear, I was keeping a close eye on the line of kids. I gasped as a dickhead on an electric scooter blew right in front of Zoe and either clipped her front tire or came close enough to make her jerk. Time froze as I waited for her bike to go down. She wobbled. And kept right on going. Her mom was riding right in front of me, and as I exhaled, I shouted, "Oh my god, she's fine!"<br />
"What?"<br />
"Did you see, a scooter just nearly hit Zoe!" And Zoe was chugging along, not even looking around. She'd basically gone from training wheels to bike messenger in two hours. Never underestimate the power of a little time, encouragement, sugar and sunshine!Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-18519111202216743542019-01-19T15:49:00.001+09:002019-04-17T03:03:43.966+09:00Most people love the tours so muchThe couple on the tour today were nice people, but not the most enthusiastic guests I've had. The wife seemed way more into it than the husband. She said she much preferred getting around town for errands on a bike than in a car. He asked how many miles it was as we were getting sized up, and how long it would take. On the beach path, I pointed out some of our rental bikes going by (I always get a kick out of seeing them in the wild). He said, "You mean we could have just rented bikes?"<br />
I thought, man, I'm right here. I can hear you!<br />
Early on, we visit a Moreton Bay fig tree that we say is second in size in the US only to one in Santa Barbara. Most people ooh and ahh. As soon as I said it was a Moreton Bay fig, before I even got to the claim that it's the second-largest, the couple pointed out that they'd seen a much bigger one in Detroit, and another bigger one somewhere else. Ruining my narrative!<br />
They also didn't want a single picture. Most people take tons.<br />
Oh, well. You can't win 'em all.Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-39860043021530456772019-01-18T07:23:00.001+09:002019-01-19T15:39:44.709+09:00I beg your pardon!A nice enough man, maybe French, was at the desk asking about bike rates. A woman with a blonde ponytail and a cap stood next to him, about the same age, about the same level of attractiveness. I asked her, as I do all day of people standing near each other, if they were together. She scowled like I'd asked if the crumpled Big Mac wrapper in the street behind her was her son.<br />
"I've never seen this man before in my <i>life,</i>" she said.<br />
O-kay. "No" would suffice...Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-36734647085326617552019-01-18T05:30:00.000+09:002019-01-18T10:13:35.092+09:00Who's high?A quiet, overcast morning with few people out. There was a serious Japanese consultant at the counter, waiting for a road bike. Three men came staggering by. One looked like an aging start-up guy who'd been out on a bender — wire-rimmed glasses, thinning blond hair, a button-down shirt with damp stains down the front and the wrong shoes. He barreled toward the counter laughing and then caromed off, a beer-bellied illustration of Newtonian motion. One of his friends looked like a 90's indie rock heartthrob who'd bottomed out along the way — the brunette dreds were unchanged from his glory days, but the green face tat hinted at hard times. He was carrying an acoustic guitar and walked toward the counter. "Hey, who's high?" he demanded. "You and you?" he asked, pointing at me and the customer. "Him?" pointing at his own pal. The customer gripped the counter and didn't turn around.<br />
"I think it's you guys," I said.<br />
"YES!" He answered, like I'd solved a riddle that had been bugging him. "That sounds right." They wandered off. Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-53251832160649441032019-01-15T14:20:00.001+09:002019-01-16T01:53:32.039+09:00Race yaI was leading a slightly overcast cycling tour yesterday, a friendly couple from Puerto Rico celebrating the guy's birthday. We stopped at a red light on Abbot Kinney, looking down into the open top of a bright blue Lamborghini. The guys revved the engine while I was looking away. "Hey!" I heard. "Race ya!" I looked around. The driver was looking at me.<br />
"Race ME?" I said.<br />
"Yeah!"<br />
"Ha, you're on!" I looked over my shoulder to grin at the guests and got ready to jam on the touring bicycle. The light turned green, and I took off as fast as I could. The Lambo did, too.<br />
It wasn't much of a contest, but we all had a good laugh. Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-5407505996093722302019-01-13T16:14:00.000+09:002019-01-13T16:14:25.773+09:00Knives and kissesSome of the guys insist that the type of music we play affects who comes in. I always doubted it, but today we were pumping out Stro Elliot, and a soulful young black guy with a collar of gold necklaces stopped in front of the shop. I was watching him talk and gesture as he walked slowly down the street, talking into the camera that his friend,walking backwards in front of him, was holding up. We said hi to each other and he said something about his birthday, and I said my birthday just passed, and he ran over and gave me a high five across the tandem bike I was standing behind, first with one hand, then both. We chatted for a second, hands still raised, then he leaned in and gave me a nuzzly kiss on the cheek. What! It seemed good-hearted and funny. He seemed high. He said they were making a documentary about the meaning of life. I extracted myself as he pulled up my hand for another kiss. He said his name was, "Frankie baby." He clarified. "Not Frankie Baby, but, like, Frankie, babyyyyyy!" He reeked of cologne, and then I did, too.<br />
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Later, I called 911 to report that an agitated transient was refusing to get out of the intersection in front of the shop, and I was afraid he was a danger at least to himself and maybe others. A coworker went over to the people who were gathered on the corner and approaching him to try to get him out. I focused in on the ranting man as I answered the dispatcher's questions to put together a description - white, 50s, tan coat, dark pants, beige knit cap, wild red beard. No visible weapons, a small dog, no physical interaction with him. I watched as he reeled closer to the other side of the street, and lost sight of the others who'd gone to talk to him. As I hung up the cordless phone, my coworker came loping back and said, "Call the cops!"<br />
"I just did," I said. "I said the guy wouldn't get out of the street."<br />
"No! That guy with no shirt. He just threatened me with a machete!" While I was watching the first guy, one of the other people who had gone into the street to tell him to get out of there had turned out to be even more aggressive than the first. My coworker followed him to tell him to leave the first guy alone. "I was worried he was going to hurt the dog," he said after. The man walked away angry, tied his shirt around his waist, and pulled something out of the bushes in front of the hotel across the street. My coworker said he waved the long knife in the air at him and made a slashing gesture across his own throat. He went to the workbench and to find an impromptu weapon to stash under the front desk. Cops pulled up from two directions a minute later. We each approached one of them and pointed at the same guy - just as he disappeared around the corner into the crowd. The police took off after him, with lights on but no sirens. Our other coworker came back from lunch a minute later. The original ranter had wandered off by now. Aside from the steel mallet under the register, it looked like nothing had happened at all.Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-8183898515524634322019-01-08T10:29:00.000+09:002019-01-09T03:03:26.568+09:00What does the bike shop do when it rains?What happens at the beach-side bike rental shop when it's chilly and rainy? Not a lot, but not nothing.<br />
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A few soggy people wrapped in mixes of high-tech rain gear and plastic bags rolled in for air for their tires. If they were hoping for a little warmth along with it, no dice - the electric space heater is powerless against the wide-open concrete shell and the temperature is exactly the same inside as out. I stood on alternate legs, propping each foot on top of the space heater in turn to try to dry out my cloth sneakers, permanently wet from the ride in.<br />
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Three people passing by wanted to know the time. One small man with facial deformities and a slow gait was excited to hear it was almost 8: "Good, they'll be open when I get there!" He came back past about an hour later muttering excitedly. I guess they were open?<br />
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Another guy asked the time and confirmed that the bank would be open by the time he arrived. Great! I always look at the clock over our heads when I tell them the time, giving them the resources to help themselves in the future. But I think partly people just want a moment of conversation.<br />
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The person who danced past in a wheelchair yesterday, face covered from the hairline down by a blue bandana, went by again today, this time pushing the wheelchair. Consensus in the shop yesterday was that "he was a true Crip, for sure." I have no insight on that, but today the person did appear to be a woman, with a serious eye patch. She was wearing the same outfit as yesterday, pants with a garish fleur de lis pattern, minus the bandana.<br />
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A guy who looked like Garth from Wayne's World came in on a BMX with a story he was excited to tell (twice) about how he got his wheel for just 40 bucks from a shop. Okay. He was wearing a Bird scooter hat, and I asked him how he got that. "I used to work there," he said. They are based in Santa Monica, in the same bougie office complex as NHK. I asked him how it was. "Bullshit, man."<br />
"Yeah?"<br />
"I was a charger." [Note: That is not remotely the same meaning as "working there."] "They fired me because they thought I was hoarding scooters."<br />
"Oh, that bumps up the price per charge, right? Why'd they think you were doing that?"<br />
"It was someone else in my building. The man who lives right below me was collecting them to take them apart or something. And they fired me!"<br />
What are the odds.<br />
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I got out the shopvac and vacced whatever was exposed. It's of course much easier to do when all the bikes are out, but there was still plenty of dust to bust, even with all the bikes in all the racks. I sucked sand and caramel popcorn out of the crevices of the cargo bikes and dust-bunnies tangled up with dried pink bougainvillea petals. I don't know why using that kind of vacuum is so satisfying. Maybe because it's a machine that is stripped down to the minimum for what it needs to do, and it's light. I was enjoying it, and wondering why I don't spend more time vacuuming at home.<br />
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A woman wanted to know where Bloomingdales was. A man wanted to know where the courthouse was. The older drug dealer who walks back and forth with the blaring boombox (throwback!) walked past every hour and a half or so from 6:30 am on. A British creative director from a French clothing company called and then came in to take pictures of the beach cruisers to see if she wanted to rent one for a photo shoot. She might come back tomorrow. The brother and sister from New York who were so excited yesterday to come in first thing today to rent bikes for a long ride were probably someplace cozy having some more coffee and looking at the rain from inside.<br />
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One of the Santa Monica "Ambassadors," LaToya, stopped by to chat and was delightful. She has long, dense, perfectly even eyelashes like a plastic baby doll. We talked about how we both enjoyed helping people have a great time while they're visiting, even if our part in it was small. She said she logs 8 or 9 miles a day walking around, basically just being available to people with questions, but isn't allowed to walk fast enough to get any cardio out of it: "We have to walk slow enough that a granny could catch up to us from behind if she wanted to." She said they interact with the "street residents," and encourage them not to bother tourists or do things that could get them ticketed. She said sometimes they have to call in clean-ups on "Code Yellow, Code Brown, and sometimes, ugh" - she signaled with two fingers and a nauseated face - "Code V." (Is that the worst of the three? Maybe the hardest to clean?)<br />
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The mechanic made coffee and shared his box of donuts, which are as delicious as they are awful. My mug is a little tea cup, and the coffee went cold almost immediately. He rebuilt the wheels on my bike since the shop was so dead, made a few tweaks to the cables, and it's running like a hotrod again. The kid who came in to replace me gave me the <a href="https://ass-savers.com/" target="_blank">Ass Saver</a> (real company/product name) off his bike to protect from the rolling bidet effect that had doused me in the worst possible way on the way over. It's ingenious - just a thin piece of plastic that makes a really light, removable fender. It's black and printed with a fish skeleton, and in that rainy moment, it felt like the nicest thing anyone's ever done.Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-36875735851337400162019-01-08T09:02:00.001+09:002019-01-08T09:24:26.947+09:00It's a year now since we drove to Los Angeles from Maryland, skirting the bottom edge of the 2014 polar vortex the whole way. (At one motel, it was so cold that the cardkeys didn't work.) A year and a few weeks. ........ Plus a few months. Like, eleven. But who's counting? I heard blogging is dead, anyway.
We made it to the west coast in a new car with new phones and new apps. The last time I did the drive, all I had was the AAA 50 states road atlas and a box of tapes. We arrived with suitcases full of everything we didn't ship from Tokyo, a rocking chair for my brother, and a case of food poisoning that was just starting to fully blossom as we came out of the desert and straight into LA's evening rush hour. My job interview was the next morning. I got the job. We got married on the beach. We got an apartment west of the 405. This means we see friends who live east of the 405 only very slightly more often than we did when we lived in Japan. I would feel terrible about it except that this is a bona fide LA <i>thing</i>. Okay, I feel terrible about it anyway. Everything about LA is true - the kale, the yoga, the person at the next table talking about a screenplay. And always the cars: the traffic jams, the route you took to get here, the valet parking, the crazy other drivers. I found out that driving a car is not like riding a bike. I took a lesson soon after we got here to try to get used to the freeway. I asked the instructor what the secret was to not being intimidated by the high-speed carpool lanes that grind right up against the median. "Oh, I stay out of those lanes. Too scary," she said. Maybe I should have gotten a better teacher.
It's pretty great, though. Coming up on two years, I'm starting to make some friends on my side of the freeway. (That's good, it's not meant to sound pathetic - it's hard to meet people!) Sometimes I can't believe my job as a TV producer is what I get to do for work - like when the assignment is to ride around and look for the vantage point with the best shot of a new city. Sometimes, less so. Like when I have to locate, say, a real estate agent who's willing to put a client's property on international television that day, before dark. We flew all the way to New Jersey one night with a ton of gear and had to come right back because the interviewee canceled first thing the next morning (her daughter was having emergency knee surgery). And the usual, occasional frictions of a cross-cultural environment. But I enjoy the travel and it is always a tremendous privilege to hear and share people's stories.
So we're pretty settled. There's a restaurant where they recognize us when we come in, and an elderly neighbor we check on. We haven't gotten a ticket for leaving the car on the wrong side of the street in quite a while. Every time I color my grey hairs, I think maybe this time I got them for good, but they keep coming back. And I still haven't found a hair salon I like. Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-64858508990044283972015-11-19T08:08:00.001+09:002015-11-19T08:17:34.481+09:00Some books for being in Japan or LA<iframe src="http://astore.amazon.com/japandra-20" width="90%" height="4000" frameborder="0" scrolling="no"></iframe>Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-45558078564516896262013-12-22T14:10:00.001+09:002013-12-22T14:19:12.816+09:00Japandra minus Japan<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Heading back to the US after almost six years in Tokyo. Our first stop when we arrived was an extended stay hotel where we spent the first 48 hours dead with food poisoning. We went out in style, though, with a comped stay at the Imperial Hotel after we handed over the apartment keys and 48 bonus hours to play tourist. We spent the last night singing at a time-warp snack bar with feisty old twin Mama-sans in sequined jackets. The place was full of thoughtful surprises and odd delights, with a befuddling mix of vintage holdovers and modern technology. It was also a little overwhelming and irritating at times. The bar, I mean. Of course.Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-57011828839942843112013-11-25T11:39:00.001+09:002013-11-27T17:18:28.102+09:00Ome, oh my<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Ome is one of my favorite little day trips out of Tokyo. While ten million people lined up to take pictures of the leaves at Takao this weekend, I had this place to myself.<br />
Here are <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/s-j-b/sets/72157638028952636/" target="_blank">some more pictures</a>. Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-48168855059771367802013-11-18T19:10:00.000+09:002013-12-05T19:11:44.399+09:00Hi, gingko trees<br />
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I wrote a tiny bit about the <a href="https://hi.co/moments/0mkfyf75" target="_blank">gingko trees that haven't quite gone gold yet</a> on Hi. It's kind of a neat site that maps moments. <a href="https://hi.co/moments/0mkfyf75" target="_blank">Check it out</a>! Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-62968996213824675152013-11-15T12:12:00.000+09:002013-11-25T12:13:43.753+09:00Japandra on Tokyo on CNN TravelCNN Travel asked me to come up with a list of <a href="http://edition.cnn.com/2013/10/31/travel/bourdain-tokyo-travel/index.html" target="_blank">things to know before you go to Tokyo</a>. The suggestion was that it fall somewhere between quirky and useful. That's me all over!<br />
Enjoy. I tried to get in a few that don't make the usual lists.<br />
PS They nixed my suggested headline for number 4, "One card to ride them all." What were they thinking?<br />
<br />Sandra Barronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18133847488285085901noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8995408873140200159.post-54039311090054424402013-10-24T23:40:00.000+09:002013-12-05T19:00:58.113+09:00No crying in bouldering!Here's something I didn't mention in my <a href="http://www.savvytokyo.com/rock-climbing-in-tokyo/" target="_blank">SavvyTokyo story about rock climbing in Tokyo</a>: I cried the last time I took a class. Considering the length of time I've been climbing, my progress is slow. Very slow. I'm still afraid of heights – I often come back down just because I'm uncomfortably far from the ground. The mechanics of climbing aren't obvious to me. So much of it is about shifting your center of mass a little bit or making subtle, coordinated adjustments. Sometimes I hit on the right combination and go "A-ha! That's it!" but I can rarely reproduce what it was that worked. I attended the free Ladies' Dojo at b-pump in Akihabara a few times with two friends. When I say we were the worst in the class, I am not being modest. Empirical evidence supports me on this. The teacher sets up a course by marking the rocks you're to use in the problem with holographic tape. Then, everyone takes a turn trying to go up the route. That day, nobody got it on the first go-round, but about half the people had reached the goal by the second turn. By the third, almost everyone had made it close to the top. Everyone except my friends and me. The wall kept pushing me off. Where other people seemed to be covered in velcro, I was climbing like the rocks were coated in oil. It was embarrassing. The teacher was supportive and gave me specific tips, but I couldn't get anywhere with it. I only felt worse when she chirped, "Okay, that's close! All you have to do is...." The final time I slipped off on an early move, I slunk back to my seat looking at the mat and felt my eyes stinging as much as the skin on my palms. I wiped at my eyes with the back of my hand to avoid smearing chalk dust in them. I hated that everyone else could do it and I couldn't. I hated that I'd been messing around with this sport off and on since college and had gained no appreciable skills. And of course I hated that I was upset about it. This was supposed to be fun!<br />
Usually it is fun. That's why I keep going back. I went home after the class and ordered a climbing book on Amazon.<br />
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